Over the weekend, Britney Spears and Sam Asgari shared about losing their “miracle baby”.
Abortions, even very early, can be heartbreaking and even painful – especially considering how long they have been waiting.
However, the two are dealing with each other, reminding themselves and others that things are still OK.
Brittany seeks comfort by sharing a throwback from her vacation in Mexico. It is good to find healthy ways to deal with it.
“I’m trying to be as sexy as Bewatch,” Britney captioned a throwback video.
“#TB to Mexico,” he labeled the post, if anyone thinks he’s on another vacation.
Britney has spread her throwbacks, sharing several photos and videos from her sunny journey.
Brittany appeared in a delightful skimpy mint green bikini.
Barely any swimsuit adjustments are needed during the video.
Britannio ran to the topless beach, enjoying the scorching sun.
Some on social media have revealed that they were surprised to see a cheerful throwback.
Why, they wondered, did he post something so positive while he and Sam Asgari were mourning after the abortion?
It’s not clear what he should post – a dark storm cloud or teary selfie GIF or nothing, because each of them will be criticized.
The reality is that the bereaved work in all sorts of ways and even someone who has been undone due to loss may have a normal moment.
Many families come together to talk and laugh after a funeral, as a way to heal the community.
Someone in grief can watch a movie, have sex, or have a normal hobby – which is healthy, and can help them cope and process.
Expressing gratitude on social media on Monday, Sam Asgari said, “We feel your support.”
“We are taking things positively and moving forward with our future,” he confirmed.
“It’s hard but we’re not alone,” Sam wrote. “Thank you for respecting our privacy. We’ll be expanding our family soon.”
While it is true that many people experience abortion without realizing it, we all understand that there is a difference when you know and expect to give birth.
This is why Britney and Sam, in a previous look, admitted that they were too premature to share the news with fans.
It is traditional to wait for people to tell you about a number of reasons, one of which is that abortion means a painful announcement to those who know about the pregnancy.
For Sam and Brittany, the tragedy was even more complicated.
The two have wanted a child for some time, but have spent most of their relationship in Brittany’s custody.
Brittany has recently been given the legal power to make such decisions for herself.
We don’t want to sound like one of those misleading political losers who talk online about “major fertile years” for women (always awful young), but …
… At age 40, any pregnancy in Brittany will be a geriatric, and her chances of conceiving normally are lower than a few years ago.
So why was she not pregnant at that time? Easy: She was physically disabled.
A UTI was implanted in Britney’s uterus and it has not been possible to remove it for years. It is compulsory sterilization, and it is a horror of human rights.
There is no denying that her dream of having a child with Sam went away a few years ago.
Nevertheless, we are rooting for them, and believe that they can be happy.